Matida
I know what you are saying. No it would not be a normal thing for him. I just don't know how to put it. I could just leave the sleeping together part out all together but I KNOW that is what she will be thinking. Then again maybe not. I could leave it at “just so we could have more time”. Then jokingly (is that a word?) during the evening tell her:

I have no intentions of us sleeping together tonight night. Not that I would not want to because to you are the most attractive woman on earth to me. But I care deeply about your feelings and would never want to do anything that would make you feel uncomfortable.

Maybe that would be better

Inputs people??

Husband

And if I claim to be a wise man, well
It surely means that I don't know