My dad's procedure went SO well. He had the angiogram and they found 80-90% blockage in one artery - but only one, so they were able to also repair it today. Actually better than they expected. Yay!!! I spent most of the evening at the hospital with my dad, as they did keep him overnight, but he seemed to be doing really well.
OT - you may be right on your interpretation of what H said. I may find out someday if I'm lucky huh?
H is acting really just, I dunno, weird and distant and it's kind of freaking me out. Tonight I got home and we talked a bit but I just felt this huge distance. I finally asked lightly "So watcha thinking?" and he said "Nothing... just stop. I know you're thinking a dozen things and they're all crazy, please just let me stop thinking."
Still not sure what to think about that and frankly too tired to care or figure it out right now. I did respond "Don't worry babe not thinking anything crazy, just trying to ask how you're doing as I know this really freaked me out." H said "yeah" but that was it, started talking about the TV show that was on. Frustrating... but my focus is elsewhere right now.
OT.. I am not being defensive, just asking - how do you think you demonstrate love in that way? (not you personally, "you" as in "the LBW".. hope that makes sense) One of my H's biggest complaints was I loved my life but not HIM and so I'm trying to show I truly do love HIM (which I do)... but then is that coming off as condescending, mothering, etc??? Make any sense?
Thanks again all. I am so tired.
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Me 35, H 38; Together 13.5 yrs, M 7 Bomb 1 10/07/06 Sep'd 1/14/07 - 4/15 Piecing: 4/07 - 9/07 Bomb 3 10/11/07: Never loved you, let's separate 2/08 slowly improving 7/08 Piecing (7/25/08 rings back on!!) Current thread
