I'm just worried about how serious this relationship is with the OM. She says that she is not prepared to give it up for us as there isn't an us, she says she loves him but that she doesn't know if it's going to last as she doesn't know him.
How can you love someone if you don't know them?
I have started kickboxing which is a great work out, I do it once a week (shortly to be twice) I have lost 49 lbs (22K) in the last three months through diet excercise and stress. Brought new clothes and feel pretty good about myself in general, all with the exception of the sitch!
Starting detatchment big style now, trying not to be as accessable as I have been in the past, not always answering her calls, not always replying to texts.
I think sometimes she is depressed, although about what I don't know. Is it that she can't see him, upset about the marriage break up, what she is doing to the kids? I don't know.
I guess I have to let her figure it out for herself. I still persue even now. I did it last night, can't seem to help myself, but I know I must.
