Originally Posted By: AmyC
It was hard for me to read your post tonight because my sister is putting my brother in law through something similar.

Work on having NO EXPECTATIONS.

Stop asking for hugs or anything else.

The quicker you back off from appearing needy, the quicker you can start detaching.

This is no cakewalk.

But it CAN be done.



AmyC


what is up with your sister???

And NM, you WILL do it. Just don't give up on the work.

We can talk ourselves into defeat or we can talk ourselves into victory - we are creatures of our thinking.

3/31/07 - Hit with a brick, leaving the dent there...