Don't listen to co-workers. They are not you, they do not have anything invested in your relationship. In fact, don't listen to anyone who tells you to "just move on." It's Bullshit. (HEY, that didn't edit! :D)
You determine what you want to do here. Do you want to stand up and save your marriage? Then start doing the DBing steps in earnest and get to work. It won't be easy, none of us are having an easy time. But figure out what your M is worth to you, figure out what your H means to you and go from there.
Most of us, if not all of us, are here because we find high value in our spouse and want to improve ourselves to be better spouses ourselves. You can do it, just start getting into the right mindest and go to work.
We can talk ourselves into defeat or we can talk ourselves into victory - we are creatures of our thinking.
3/31/07 - Hit with a brick, leaving the dent there...
