Funny enough, my W has kept all her letters that I wrote back in Feb/March. Hearfelt letters of our life, and pointing out my wrongs, and letting her know that the future would be so more different.
These letters were before I started reading DBing. Although, when I did ask her if these letters bothered her at the time, she said no.
Who knows why they do the things they do........
AndyV M38 W36 D7 M 13 years Together 17 years W wants D mid Dec 06 (ring off) W wants separation early Jan 07 (she backdated to Oct 06) EA revealed end March 07 (Nov 06 W first meeting with OM) Hallmark moment "I care for you but am no longer in love with you."