Everyday that I think that there won't be much to talk about on this board my W throws something at me. While at work today my W chatted me asking me if I ever thought two people who did not get along can do such a good job parenting together? Then she told me that the townhouses that she would like to buy are going fast and if we can work things out between us her lawyer will write everything up for us legally. This way I did not have to pay for my lawyer. I
There is now a part of me that wants to say screw it and fight for full custody of our girls and let her have supervised visitation. I know this is not realistic nor is this what I want. I want my family. But I hate that she can apear to just move on so darn easily. Maybe she hurts like I do with the thought of breaking up our family and doesn't allow me to see it. I really do not know. I do believe that she has convinced herself that she is better off without being married to me. Though she knows that she cannot raise our girls without me.
She also told me that she is starting to pray that we can always be civilized with each other because we will be around each other for graduations, etc... I guess the fact that she is praying for me is a 180 for her.
Well I will not see my W now until we go to couseling together on Monday. I pray that she keeps this appointment and does not cancell it like the last two appointments.
I would like to hear some opinions/thoughts on how I can give words of affirmation to her without coming off as pursueing or pressuring her.
