Yes, I did thank her for the coffee. I have always thanked her and appreciated the things she does, even now.
I got up a few minutes ago (yippee, got nearly 7 hours sleep). And have not seen any Real Estate agreements lying around (she would normally leave papers/documents on the kitchen bench).
Hopefully the agent told her to wait till our home is completed before selling (or even gave her a bad price due to the market being down).
Husband, like I said before, I have to get out of the habit of thinking why my W is doing things. Although my PMA is on the increase, in the back of my mind I feel that she may be doing something (ie Divorce papers, selling house, wanting her own place to be with OM earlier etc) and hence the good will shown to me (keeping her enemies close) is not really unconditional.
I still feel that she is still angry at me and does not want anything to do with me at the moment. She won't even wait the 12 months of separation to complete the D process.
These are my feelings, although possibly wrong. I just have to not dwell as much as I have.
AndyV M38 W36 D7 M 13 years Together 17 years W wants D mid Dec 06 (ring off) W wants separation early Jan 07 (she backdated to Oct 06) EA revealed end March 07 (Nov 06 W first meeting with OM) Hallmark moment "I care for you but am no longer in love with you."
