One thing I mentioned in the post was her comment about forgiveness. I happened to tell her about a good web site on the subject and that if she wanted I would give her the link. She said yes please do. So this morning while we were IMing I gave her the link. Tonight it came up and she read a good bit of the site and said she really liked it and wanted to finish reading it. The way she spoke it sounds like it struck a cord with her too.