I have looked at myself as I have had tons of time to think and I know that I have been lazy and not putting him #1 in my life. I have told him that I realized that I was miss managing my energy and giving most of it to work. As he said he wants space and he needs to figure out if he can put anything back into this relationship. For me that sounds like there is no hope. My coworkers say that I just need to move on with my D and realize that he is not coming back. I have been doing all the things I not suppose to and I need to find some will power to stop. I can tell I am pushing him further away. Can this really be fixed if he has moved out and has said move on with your life.
