No, I know that but I asked twice about the homework, I think that's enough. He's not two years old and is quite capable of dealing with everything else.
I will make it VERY clear to the ST tomorrow that I am very hurt that he is not making our M/SL a priority in his life
Which is exactly what you should say. You reminded him twice, when there was still plenty of time. He could easily have done it, but chose not to. That that is his usual modus operandi, and you are NOT impressed. Stated calmly, without rancor, but firmly.