Do NOT marry this woman. Every problem you have now will be ten times worse AFTER marriage. Her true colors are shining through right now, and they pretty much suck. Marriage does NOT make women better, they only get WORSE. I would think that you won't know for at least a couple more YEARS if she can truly fix her issues. The LAST thing you want is to get in the same boat the rest of us are in, and be in a SSM for 15 - 30 years or more.
