No way to create more contact, or no way to create more contact that isn't likely to be detrimental to his goal of saving the M? I guess either way it sounds like that ball is in her court, and you'll just have to wait and see.

Any thoughts on whether he should reach out to her with a letter or call or something to let her know that he loves her, would be interested in reconciling (or some words to that effect, and/or that he has been using this time to really take a hard look at himself and he sees how some of this things he was doing really hurt her and their relationship? He could add that he is working on those things so he can be the man he wants to be in a relationship hopefully with her, but if not with someone else.

Just thinking out loud.

M 39
W 39
M'd 10 yrs; T 14 yrs
S7 D4
Bomb 5-8-05
W not working on M 1-22-07; EA 2-22
DB 4-10
S 6-11
No more C
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