I have always been the type of person that says "as long as it is not hurting someone" then I really don't care what others do (illegal or otherwise)
If our spouse is hurting us in some way, I think we absolutely have the right to advise them - however, there is always the right and wrong way to do things now, isn't there?
When I say not to judge, it is more in the context of making assumptions of others, that quite often are wrong.
Don Miguel Ruiz has a wonderful book, based on ancient Toltec wisdom, called the Four Agreements. They are:
(1) don't make assumptions (2) be impeccable with your words (3) don't take things personally (4) always do your best
If more people learned to live by just these four agreements, the world would be a much better place by far
Heywyre
M - 57 H - 65 1st A-bomb - Nov 27/02 2nd A-bomb - Dec 13/06 together 21 years *************************** Insanity is doing something over and over and expecting different results (Albert Einstein)
