Heywyre wrote: "Comments oh wise ones?"

I don't know about wise, but comment, yes.

He just pulled a "[insert husband's name here]". Same M.O.

If you really want a different outcome this time, you don't back him up with the therapist. Your hubby wants you to be OKAY with his unilateral decision. I suggest that you not be.

Sit back, and when you are asked what you think, you tell him the truth, and that this is hubby's standard way of dealing with things, and that YOU DON"T LIKE IT, and that it was NOT okay.

Oh, and while you have the therapist's attention, you may want to take the opportunity to ask him if he thinks that a full panel STD test is in order in light of hubby's latest adventure.

You did ask \:\)

All the best,
-NOPkins-

I will ferret out an affair at any opportunity.

-An affair is the embodiment of entitlement, fueled by resentment and lack of respect.
-An infidel will remain unreachable so long as their sense of entitlement exceeds their ability to reason.