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I know I should have taken into account you starting a new job


My feathers would be all ruffled that somehow *I* ended up being part of his excuse/justification.

That doesn't mean that I would allow the ruffling to take place in front of him. So, I don't have anything helpful to say at this point.

It does remind me of that old maxim that it's easier to get forgiveness than it is to get permission.

MrsNOP -