Oddly enough, those individuals who insist that you should love THEM unconditionally, come with a boatload of conditions with which YOU must comply before they will dribble a bit of kindness your way.
Another quote from July 2005...this time, from honeypot: "What MrsHD wants is unconditional acceptance of her unwillingness to meet Hairy's needs. Or even to try."
Y'all are making me dig through my dark archives. It kinda hurts.