All that crap about never really loving you, blah, blah, blah is revisioning. It's not true. One guy, I think built4speed, has been slammed with that garbage. His wife said some HURTFUL [censored]!

Anyway, don't worry about that so much. It all boils down to attraction and excitement. Show him you're independent and don't need him (yeah, quit the hugging stuff and make him earn it - guys like to pursue ;\) ) and he'll come back. Don't make it easy for him. But don't be completely unavailable, you know? Keep it interesting and unpredictable.

It actually sounds like you've had some good interaction, build on that slowly and surely. Good luck!!!

We can talk ourselves into defeat or we can talk ourselves into victory - we are creatures of our thinking.

3/31/07 - Hit with a brick, leaving the dent there...