I am just afraid that me GAL, detaching, and not initiating a conversation about "us" is making her reluctant to talk about "us".


If it is a 180 for you to talk about the R then ask but please don't go to much into things unless she initiates the rest.ie: apologise and let it drop if she brings other things up validate and do not defend.

It seems they are all reluctant to talk, that means they might have to work on the R and they are not prepared right now to do that so tread lightly.

I want you two to have a wonderful time. Im'e sure what you say and when you say it is going to depend on how the weekend went also.

JAK

You don't get to choose how you're going to die. Or when, you can only decide how you're going to live now. ~Joan Baez