My W is the same, her cousin (the divorced and bitter one) keeps telling her that I will never change (controlling and jealousy).
And my W keeps stating that it is too late.
The one thing our W's have in common is that they are quitters. Sad but true.
AndyV M38 W36 D7 M 13 years Together 17 years W wants D mid Dec 06 (ring off) W wants separation early Jan 07 (she backdated to Oct 06) EA revealed end March 07 (Nov 06 W first meeting with OM) Hallmark moment "I care for you but am no longer in love with you."