I was just scanning around some of the other threads b/f I get on with my day, and it struck me all over again how much it seems the WAS's must have read the same book!
"I don't love you,""We married for the wrong reason,""I tried for X months/years & you never noticed," ... I get both a bit frustrated at the similarity - does this mean we are all just running in the same circles? -- but I also find it a bit comforting - maybe he really doesn't know what he's saying even if he sounds so sure! Everytime H & I talk about any of this, he seems to talk like he's so unique, but every time I hear something that I can later find posted on this site as being said by someone else's spouse.
Boy I hope I can keep patient - and can keep H from pushing for a divorce. The more I think he's not so original, the more I think we stand a chance of making a big mistake if we divorce too quickly.
Anyone got a spare crystal ball????
Great thought! There is no difference. Our situations aren't unique, and when they say, "we're different" we're not! It is comforting to some extent. It shows the DBing processes can work.
We can talk ourselves into defeat or we can talk ourselves into victory - we are creatures of our thinking.
3/31/07 - Hit with a brick, leaving the dent there...
