Always..........more news. I confronted OW yesterday, I know you might think this is crazy and I shouldn't have done it, but i had to in order to let her know where I stood as far as my children were concerned. I was very calm and let her know that if she and my H continue, that in future, I don't owe her anything. I told her that i will never respect her and as far as my children go, I didn't want her to even look at my children let alone touch them. I said that I knew I cannot control it, but I need her to know. Also, I told her that if she is ever around my babies, I wanted her to take a good look at them and to realize what she helped in taking away from them. Throughout the conversation, it came up that my H still had feelings for me. He called me last night and told me that he has ended it with her and that he is only focus on himself and that the only person he cared to make things right with is me. He said that when he was going through some of our things, he got to our wedding pictures and he just couldn't get rid of them and that he still had his ring. He said he didn't expect anything out of us, except a friendship and he hopes that i can find it in his heart to forgive him. He said, "I am going to make things right. I made a mess out of things and now I need to fix them." I don't know. A lot of others things happened in between, but too much for me to write about right now.................................................. I put closure on things and moved on......................now what?????
