In my case my family has been destructive to the process. Hell i was renting from my aunt and she just evicted me (60days notice) because I won't "let go."
It made me realize that both of us have always had big outside influences telling us not to be together. Her family, my family, friends, etc.
It's not their choice. It's mine. I'm in my mid 30's for (edit) sake.
It also made me realize I never stood up for her enough. I shall do my damn-est to never make that mistake again.
She and my kids are the most important things. period. No room for negotiation, ever.
H-36 W-38 Married 14yrs Together 17 2 Children (D12, S15) 9/20/05 - Seperated 4/23/07 - Dbomb dropped 4/25/07 - I Love you, not in love "If it's not hard, it's not worth fighting for."
