Do you want a trained animal who'll jump and sit at your command, or a human being that really loves you in return. Two different outcomes requiring two different approaches.

Do you want a dog that will hump anything and then come and sit by your side or a human being that will love and RESPECT you and be honest with you?

I can support Heywyre's decision to want to stay married and continue to love her H. I cannot support her ignoring the facts that her H has cheated and lied without taking accountability for his actions and without being straight forward in preventing it from happening again.

Nobody is judging Heywyre's H. They are concerned that Heywyre's H will allow himself to be in the same place where he would cheat on her AGAIN.



But what is happiness except the simple harmony between a man and the life he leads? ~Albert Camus