I haven't looked. No offense but Sacramento isn't on my list of places to go. You'd feel the same way about coming here I'm sure.
Originally Posted By: NMHurting
oh my W would flip if she thought I was airing dirty laundry. That's why I don't give names, go into specifics.
But hell...I gave her the book to read. I have nothing to hide.
I haven't aired dirty laundry that wasn't mine, I don't believe. I accept the responsibility for what I did, I'm here mostly for support in a situation I have no control over. My W would actually he happy to hear me say that. I was apparently a huge control freak about our arguments, differing opinions, and decision-making processes. I don't need to do that anymore.
I'll bring her here when the time is right, I want her to know how hard I've been working to be the man I'm supposed to be. That's one way I think she'll see I'm not blowing smoke up her skirt because I'm codependent.
We can talk ourselves into defeat or we can talk ourselves into victory - we are creatures of our thinking.
3/31/07 - Hit with a brick, leaving the dent there...