I obviously see this sitch very differently than most of you all, and I obviously have the balls to speak honestly. Otherwise you'd just be getting lip service.

I'm going to try and clarify the fundamental difference in our approaches:

Yours: H can not be trusted, he should be pushed, and made accountable.

Mine: What H does is between him and God, and someday we'll all be made accountable. The big question is, can Heywyre love him the way he is, unconditionally, as Jesus loves us.

Call me naive, call me stupid, call me whatever you want. But you'll never shake my confidence and faith in what miracles come to those who wait, to those who love like Jesus loves.

Do you want a trained animal who'll jump and sit at your command, or a human being that really loves you in return. Two different outcomes requiring two different approaches. Just keep your minds open.

Love,

COG


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