My fiancé has been treating me pretty good in the sex area but not as passionate as I would like. It is a fair statement to say things have improved. We have been together about 1 to 2 times per week and she does not initiate these events. I will need to cut her a little slack due to her monthly time.
When I say passionate I probably mean quantity or her lack of initating rather than the actual act. However, there are definite things that I would complain about…She has yet to do oral on me but I have on her every time. This was never a problem the first six months (going down the road, etc…). What the heck is up with this! Why is she so vanilla these days. On one hand I want to ask ‘Why in the hell don’t you give me he@d?, like you used too? Why do you just lay there?”
I initiated the sex with her even though I was counseled by Green not do this. I think she would be receptive to everyday if I pushed it. But that would seem to me that she was doing this just to pacify me. I may just do this to see her response. She does seem happier that we are getting along better.
I have not brought up any relationship talk or ‘Lack of Sex’. She is affectionate and trying to do better. I can tell she is trying.
On the plus side, she treats me like gold. She does not talk about her financial issues anymore. Every time she has brought it up I would respond with ‘How is the job hunting going”. The other day I even stopped bye after a workout and picked up an application from an employment agency.
I am NOT sold on the marriage thing at this stage! She knows that this is a deal breaker for me. I don't care and will not apologize.
