IF your H is recommiting to your marriage then i feel he needs to be in on every aspect of your life good or bad. Look at it as a way to find out for yourself if he is really in it for the long haul, And give him the chance to show you he is.(i know easier said than done).


I don't get she's just a friend. What i get is she wouldn't do do that (as in she's a saint) If he only knew some of the things she has done that i found out about. That is why im'e suprised that i have all of my tongue still.

Im'e still working on me,trying to learn to get through negative thoughts without bringing them up to H. He just seems to want to pretend like nothing ever happened and i think im'e having a hard time moving forward without that validation.

You have done such a wonderful job.

I really find help for my sitch in your posts as our sitches seem very simalar.

JAk


Last edited by jak58; 06/07/07 05:53 PM.
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