Misconceptions of MLC

[Holly06]

I think you have two choices. Lots of casual contact, or leave them alone.
BP and I have discussed this at length. Either method brings no response from her H.

I think the return has some universal components.

Feeling safe
No rebuffing or you owe me attitude
acceptance
no guilt

If you can show him these things consistently then he will feel safe to return to you.
We also know they need space, and they have to set the pace for the return.
So help us with this one friends.