Either that, or someone quite older. You gotta remember he ain't got no cash. Pretty, but feeble young things tend to be expensive. He might do the "starving poet supported by older, female Maecenas" thingey.
Yeah, I could definitely see that happening. He's out of the tent now living in a motel being funded by his big sister. He's applying for jobs at book and music stores. Which pretty much means that I could probably find more spare change in my sofa right now than my child support payment will be. He abandoned his apartment and just left all the utilities hooked up. I refuse to do anything about this. He's supposed to be giving me payments towards the mortgage too since we rolled all our debt into it before we split and now I'm stuck with that too. He told me he doesn't care what happens because he'll just declare bankruptcy. Meanwhile, my sister/business partner is undergoing chemo/radiation so I have to cover for her or my business cash flow will reduce to a trickle. So...I feel like I shouldn't be dating or doing anything fun or buying golden hoodies or even chatting with you guys until I get this mess sorted out but then I get all p*ssed off that somehow I'm STILL the one who has to do everything even though I kicked his *zz to the curb. I really need about a 3 month supply of Dexedrine so I can just power through this cr*p and then once again feel the delight of no longer being married to him and free to plan a better future.
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver
