Thanks so much for your thoughts ROOT. I am going to try one more time using your advice...I hope it isn't too late. Keep your fingers crossed. I know I have already made him angry, and then angry again, and then angry again.
I have tried to look hot sometimes when I know I am going to see him...he does notice and comment. I have even tried to be a little mysterious but I am one lousy actress because I wear my heart on my sleeve. And when I do get positive reinforcement from my H then I start pushing with R talk. Can you tell that patience has never been one of my strongest virtues?...exactly the reason that I get so fed up and tell my H that we should go ahead and get a D. Not a good trait in a DBer or the LBS of a MLCer.
I slept terribly last night and I was feeling very down and out, but your post has made me feel a little better. I maybe crazy, but right now I feel like there might be a tiny ray of hope. I am pretty sure I will see my H this evening...I am invited to his office building for an open house (he isn't invited...long story). I think I will stop by his office before hand looking very sexy.