I thank ALL of you for your comments - really. I wouldn't be on this board if I didn't want them. They are what helps me to sort out my day to day indecisions and I appreciate each and every one of them, even if I don't act on them
I don't know what the ST will say but according to his website he is very adament about doing the homework, otherwise don't bother. H said this whole "homework thing is rather childish" but my guess is he is feeling very vulnerable right now and this is something we have NEVER done in 18 years of marriage so you can understand him hesitating
Time will tell - we go tomorrow to the ST so not much longer to wait for the hammer to fall. I wouldn't be surprised if he attempted some lame version of the homework later today but I am not holding my breath in that regard.
Heywyre
M - 57 H - 65 1st A-bomb - Nov 27/02 2nd A-bomb - Dec 13/06 together 21 years *************************** Insanity is doing something over and over and expecting different results (Albert Einstein)