You're 100% right, I just think my W will see it as an attack on her if I PUSH for more parenting time. I talked to her mom about it, we'll see what happens.
You know I don't want to get the lawyers involved.
And it's not even about MY time with my S, but HIS time with his DAD! A boy needs to be with his dad more than he needs to be with his mom, that's for sure. I blew it not being a better dad when I was with him all the time, we take so much for granted, but part of my awakening is that I'm a better dad now too! We love being together, but we always say we wish Mommy was there too.
We'll see what happens by next Wednesday. I can't imagine she'll go ANOTHER week with zero contact...
We can talk ourselves into defeat or we can talk ourselves into victory - we are creatures of our thinking.
3/31/07 - Hit with a brick, leaving the dent there...