From new thread seeking help for strange:

Fellow DB'ers:

If anyone has time to check out strange's post Wife gone...Is there hope, he is faced with a sitch that he hasn't gotten much feedback on. The thread is a quick read, but the general problem is:

His W dropped the bomb, moved out, is having an A with OM.
They have had EXTREMELY LIMITED contact since then, for weeks.
They have no kids.
The contact they have seems to have only been about finances.
Since the bomb/move out, he has been backing off, giving her space, and not pursuing.

strange, correct me if I got any of that wrong. I have been trying to help, but I am at a loss on how to deal with so little contact. Maybe there is nothing else for him to do, but I was hoping to generate some more traffic on his thread in case others have thoughts/advice/ideas.

Much thanks,
Nomopo


M 39
W 39
M'd 10 yrs; T 14 yrs
S7 D4
Bomb 5-8-05
W not working on M 1-22-07; EA 2-22
DB 4-10
S 6-11
No more C
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