Well thanks for the positive encouragement you two.
With all due respect COG, if someone points out something that doesn't seem positive, why should I or Nop (or whoever) say it is? Not to toot my own horn (or Nops) but I'd say we are both in fairly healthy M's right now and having lots of hot sex to boot. Is that from "staying positive" when our S is acting like they are not giving where they need to give in the M? Heck no. Confrontation works. Brutal truth works. It's the only thing that will ultimately build the intimacy. But that's my take. LFL
