Husband,

Just a little reminder here.... I hope when your wife is doing things like taking out the recycling or being patient about something that would have made her angry and mean in the past you are saying or doing something nice to help reinforce that behavior. Even going a little overboard on compliments and a friendly hug in response to her positive behavior is okay. Look at it from a psychological standpoint; You want to reinforce good behavior.

I'm really proud of you. You are a great dad, wonderful husband and a good person.


There is no arriving, ever. It is all a continual becoming.