My attorney said not to spend money either. But our old boat sank last year in a wind storm, and i had been planning on buying a new one.
This one is more expensive, but i'm using the insurance money for part of it.
So its more of a replacement. She even said I should buy a new boat. I don't know. I'm sure it will hurt me in the long run.
Also, i talked to my wife briefly this morning - she is still full steam ahead with seperation, and even mentioned that she talked to her counselor, and for whatever reason she brought up my changes, and how it annoys and frustrates her because its too late. And her counselor said "a lot of time its just a coping mechanism for men, and they revert right back to the way they are, sometimes it is permenant, but not most of the time."
I asked her what she thought, and she said yeah that my changes are temporary.. I didn't say anything.
I'm glad she got a marriage hater for a counselor. I guess I couldn't expect her lawyer to look out for our family.
Anyways, so today i'm off to meet with a family therapist with my wife. Should be good times. I'll update later today.
