Actually no, I do not think it is a catch-22. You are only talking about your child, not the R or M. This has to do with your bonding as a dad with your son. Your W and you are a whole different issue. I can live without my W, I don't believe I could say the same thing about my S.
M 41 W 33 S8 S17 Bomb 3/11/07 S 3/28/07 New beginning? 8/31/07
