None today either? Here's the million $$$ question. WHY file for D if you're not going to go through with it? She doesn't have to wait in our state, we could be done already. I've just put this all in God's hands, and I'm confident He's guiding her to do what's right and not end her family.
BECAUSE SHE DOES NOT KNOW IF THAT IS WHAT SHE REALLY WANTS.
Keep up that faith and patience dammit. Positives, that is all we are looking for and this is one of them.
M 41 W 33 S8 S17 Bomb 3/11/07 S 3/28/07 New beginning? 8/31/07
BELIEVE me, it's in my pile (my very small pile) of small signs.
I'm positive, I feel good. I know there is a lot of work to do but I'm ready! It's 11 years of garbage I need to clean up. I just want the chance NOW doggonit!
No, I'm being very patient. I'm actually enjoying learning my new job and I'm going to take some time off - real time off this weekend, so I'm actually in surprisingly good shape.
I'll tell you what though, I'm 100% sure I wouldn't be in such good shape if God hasn't given me a lot of support. I feel like he's having me stand on my own a little right now, but that's how I learn - by DOING! There is just no doubt in my mind things will be ok, I just want them ok now, and that's the lesson I hve to learn - IT'S NOT JUST ABOUT ME!!!!
I also wouldn't be in such good shape if I didn't have such a great family. They have all been so supportive. The one thing that kind of hurts with them is they all miss my wife a lot too. She knows it too. But that'll all be OK as we get working on our M/R.
Still rainy and crappy here, it actually SNOWED in the freakin mountains!!!
We can talk ourselves into defeat or we can talk ourselves into victory - we are creatures of our thinking.
3/31/07 - Hit with a brick, leaving the dent there...
"I'm positive, I feel good. I know there is a lot of work to do but I'm ready! It's 11 years of garbage I need to clean up. I just want the chance NOW doggonit!"
Don't we both.
Fly to Sacramento, play golf on sunday. Weather is nice.
M 41 W 33 S8 S17 Bomb 3/11/07 S 3/28/07 New beginning? 8/31/07
I gotta keep that on the DL, my wife is very computer savvy and I don't want her popping up in here yet.
I'll tell you when we golf...
Originally Posted By: 789
"I'm positive, I feel good. I know there is a lot of work to do but I'm ready! It's 11 years of garbage I need to clean up. I just want the chance NOW doggonit!"
Don't we both.
Fly to Sacramento, play golf on sunday. Weather is nice.
Hmm, Sacramento...hmmmm
Let me go see what's on tap at Southwest.com
We can talk ourselves into defeat or we can talk ourselves into victory - we are creatures of our thinking.
3/31/07 - Hit with a brick, leaving the dent there...
He won't tell us. Must live somewhere really nice.
Hardly, shoot I liked PHX WAY more than here. I fact, if I had a time machine, destination #1 would be Chandler AZ January 2004. Just NOT moving to where I am would have solved some HUGE problems. NOT blaming the move, just things wouldn't have happened if we hadn't moved. Anyway...
We can talk ourselves into defeat or we can talk ourselves into victory - we are creatures of our thinking.
3/31/07 - Hit with a brick, leaving the dent there...
Think about this, if she is in here, wouldn't that be a good sign she is looking for help too
Well, I just think about UA's comment that her H was pissed that she was sharing their story online.
I mean, I know neither she nor I know any of you personally, so it's not like I'm sharing all this with our neighbors, but I just don't want her getting upset. Probably silly, but when the time is right, I'll bring her here - in the spirit of full disclosure, since that is a huge deal to her, and rightfully so. I'll show her what I've been going through, I'll show her that I feel her pain (I hate saying that now that Bill Clinton made it a catch phrase, but it's true), and I'll show her that the changes I'm making are real and permanant.
All in due time my friend, all in due time.
We can talk ourselves into defeat or we can talk ourselves into victory - we are creatures of our thinking.
3/31/07 - Hit with a brick, leaving the dent there...
