And here's a little different spin on the Insurance girl. You've got to start looking at every opportunity to create a little sexual tension. See that's what YOU can do to improve your sitch.
When your H came and told you about what the girl said, I'm not sure what your response was, but here's what it should have been. "Oh H you stud muffin you. You've got these women just hot to trot. How do you do it to us? Wow, you are really HOT!" My guess is your probably responded more like his mother than his lover, but that's OK. Just start looking for opportunities, opportunities that have always existed, but maybe you've never recognized before.
Look at this as a game, and play to win!
Love,
COG
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