Heartbroken, I used to do drivebys too!!!! Gosh are we women all the same are what!!!?
I know this is going to be difficult to do, but try not to feel too bad if he is seeing OW. You need to look at it this way... he probably needs to go through this to get it out of his system. Once I finally realized this and accepted this, I worried about my husband coming back "too quickly." I finally realized, painful as it was, that he needed to be with OW, or another woman, long enough to get through the "crush" stage to the reality stage and fully understand the grass is not greener on the other side. This was not something he could just hear and understand, he had to live it. Unfortunately, that doesn't happen overnight. They need to get through the romantic dreamy state to real day to day living (actually "knowing" a person, handling disagreements, normal disappointments, recognizing other female manipulation, etc...). _________________ Note to LoneyOlive, Although looking like the girls at Hef's house helps.... pant size really doesn't have anything to do with being a HOTTIE. The secret ingredient is attitude... and YOU have it!!!! Welcome to the DBing HOTTIE mama's club!!!
There is no arriving, ever. It is all a continual becoming.
