Nah, I have a feeling if I knew you Choc, we'd be too good of friends for me to ever have become an OM to your W.
In fact, I'd probably be the friend that wanted to kick OM's butt for yah. Although, truth be told, as you all know I was an OM at one time, and it is not a fun place to be. I don't know what kind of person your OM is Choc, but if he has a shred of decency inside him, he is hurting somewhere in there too. I would pity him in that case. Now if he was a blackfoot kind of OM, that's a different story.
Keep the faith Choc
Chrome
"Recollect me darlin, raise me to your lips, two undernourished egos, four rotating hips"