Here's my thing I'm working on - why worry? What good does it do? I used to ask my W that all the time because she is a huge worrier - always has been as far as I can tell. I've released the need to worry, and it really helps.

Focus on future solutions, focus on future benefits to your family from this time apart, focus on that family picture you're going to take this summer all together, focus on making a marriage so spectacular that all will envy it. If that doesn't make you feel good, nothing will ;\)


We can talk ourselves into defeat or we can talk ourselves into victory - we are creatures of our thinking.

3/31/07 - Hit with a brick, leaving the dent there...