I agree that it is not best to withhold that info. If it was someone that wasn't so closely related, maybe it wouldn't be a relevant to tell him, but I'm sure your H knows your dad well, and I'm sure if something crazy happened, he would be hurt that you didn't tell him about the heart attack and procedure.

I don't see why H would be a jerk about it...maybe he might be selfish at first, but I think overall he would totally understand and would probably want you to be with your dad.

Me 33 H 34 S9 S3
M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs)
EA/PA 1/2006
DB 5/2006
H wants D 6/2006
H wants ME 8/2006
H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006
H erased OW off phone! 2/2007

"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."