I did bring it up, last Friday but I haven't heard anything yet. I've been tentative in standing up for myself because I'm 100% certain my W can't differentiate between the legal and the emotional. I've been doing what's right, I'm still waiting on her. I believe it's all a big test, but at some point I have to stand up to her.
Again, I'm only 2+ months in and I don't want to scare her off, but at some point we have to start doing what's right, or we won't get anywhere, I think...
It does suck, but I'd rather it suck a little now and we work to get back together than it not suck so much and we D right away - quite the Catch-22 eh?
We can talk ourselves into defeat or we can talk ourselves into victory - we are creatures of our thinking.
3/31/07 - Hit with a brick, leaving the dent there...
