Hello, everyone. I am posting here right now instead of MLC. My husband has decided to come home. I am so excited. Now we have to start the piecing again. I don't know how to link my thread, but it is under..Someone,Please help me!. I will be posting regularly for advice!!
Kissak
"What time I am afraid, I will trust in thee." Psalms 56:3 M-37 H-37 S-10, D-15 M- 1993 First bomb- 12/23/06 Came and went too MANY times! Gone again 10-25-10
I am very proud for sticking it out and I am very proud of my H. We had to go through alot of heartache to get here. We both know what it takes now to make our marriage work. People think I am crazy for taking him back, but they just don't understand our sitch. We didn't have a bad marriage, it was "picture perfect", we just had alot of work to do to reconnect and understand what brought us to the point to separate. Prayer had alot to do with it.
Kissak
"What time I am afraid, I will trust in thee." Psalms 56:3 M-37 H-37 S-10, D-15 M- 1993 First bomb- 12/23/06 Came and went too MANY times! Gone again 10-25-10
the heck with what people think, unless they've been in you shoes they can't even begin to imagen your sitch. Hang in there and keep praying and staying strong)))
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.
Good for you! Remember that it will require work on both parts. I took my H back after separation in summer '05 and am still fighting hard to keep my marriage going. Problem is that H is not fighting as well, so I don't know if it will work in the long run. Ignore people, many who are not in your situation will tell you not to take him back. They think that they are helping. Biggest advice I would say is to keep the lines of communication OPEN. Easier said than done, takes two. Best wishes and I am so happy for you!!!
Me 43 H 44 S-13 D-9 Separated 90 days 6/28/05 H Says he is done-10/2/06-day after 18th anniv Moved out 10/2/07-to father's house-day after 19th wedding anniv-GF now H Filed for D 7/08
Thanks, My H called today and said he had a list of rules he wanted to talk about before we got back into things to deep..Some of the rules were....never go to bed angry, always communicate, always say what u feel, share chores, schedule time with kids and each other and alot of other stuff. Looks like it finally has hit him. He even texted me last night and said he wanted to fall back in love with me again. I almost cried. Before when We tried to work it out, he would only say, he weren't sure what was going to happen. Now he is saying what he wants to happen! I am so excited over the changes, but still a bit carefull. We have decided to wait for him to move back in for a while. We want to take it slowly. He is still taking kids this weekend to his place. We havent told them just yet. Will probably do Sunday. They will be so happy.
Kissak
"What time I am afraid, I will trust in thee." Psalms 56:3 M-37 H-37 S-10, D-15 M- 1993 First bomb- 12/23/06 Came and went too MANY times! Gone again 10-25-10
I had a wonderful weekend with my H and kids. My H has really made a 180. Last time he came back, it was work. We had to really try working on our marriage. This time, it seems as if it is working all on its own. He even said so. He has started doing things that show he cares for me. Calling me and talking and stuff. I am so happy right now. The only thing that hasn't come yet is the I LOVE YOU. I feel it will soon, but he knows from last time that I wont say it until he does. He knows I love him and he even said he wants to fall back in love with me. We have started to move his things back in and have talked to our kids about it. They are so happy. I know we still have work and there will still be problems ahead, but if we can make it through all this, it will be ok.
Kissak
"What time I am afraid, I will trust in thee." Psalms 56:3 M-37 H-37 S-10, D-15 M- 1993 First bomb- 12/23/06 Came and went too MANY times! Gone again 10-25-10
