Madonna/Whore Complex Part 4

[Heywyre]

You are right Lou - perhaps she is just like that with all men, not just H

As for the commission part - the agent themselves get a commission but the employee is paid a salary, so no incentive there.

However, I do have to look at the bright side of it and remind myself that he did tell me about it (he could have easily just let it slip)

[OG_Lou]

there won't be any chance of him showering or kissy facing at 3 pm because our appt is at 2:30 and I am working until 2 and just meeting him there.
HW I was just being creative. I didn't know when the appointment time or who was coming/going from what location.

I was just trying to give you some insight to how I think your H might be thinking. Of course, I have no way of knowing how or what he thinks.

If BB and I had that homework, I could think of at least 2X a day to complete the assignment.

I know I am not Mr. HW, don’t think like he does, so what I think of doesn't count. I know some people do get some things done just because there is a deadline.

OCD? Not fun.

Lou

[Greeneyedlass]

(2) what is with H and younger women that they just seem to latch onto him in that fashion and constantly hit on him?

Heywyre, some guys are just magnets for younger women. My late fiancee was one of those men. He was 50 when he passed and young women (in their 20's) would hit on him all the time....it didn't hurt that he was really good looking and fit too, but you could also tell he made a good living...he would often get hit on my flight attendants when traveling). His partner and his assistant both told me that when that would happen somehow he would work me into their conversation, and/or show my picture while talking to them about me. I have to admit that made me feel great! He was polite to these women but made it clear he was taken and wasn't interested.

With my H (aside from his online stuff) I know he talks about me all the time. I actually had no idea that he talks about me so much until other people would tell me, which was part of my frustration in the beginning...other people were very aware of how he felt about me, but I didn't have a clue because he'd never tell ME. Anyway, I suspect if he had been in your H's position with that woman he would have said "sure my wife and I can probably stop by sometime when we're out and about."

[Heywyre]

I know you don't know how he thinks Lou - wish you did, it would be a LOT easier

[Heywyre]

GEL - H does talk about me a fair amount (I've heard it from others too and I have been present for a fair share) but he is also the type of person that likes to pull people's chains. He gets quite a kick from getting a rise out of people - young, old, male or female - so bringing me into that particular conversation would have taken away his "fun"

[OG_Lou]

You are right Lou - perhaps she is just like that with all men, not just H

The other part I had in mind was, your H taking it as flirting or much more than the girl intended it to be.

Some people say "thank you so much" but do they really mean it like you hear it?

Just consider the possibility that some of these interactions are seen through filtering lenses. When each person has their own lens, who determines the true shade of color, or is that colour, eh?

Lou

[Heywyre]

Oh I don't think he considered it flirting at all - I did. He just told me what she said

[LustForLife]

Don't you think it's kind of odd that he hasn't mentioned the homework assignment? I mean, do you think he is just going to meet you at the appointment without saying a word to you about it? I understand your reasoning for not mentioning it again, but I wonder what is going through his head?
LFL

[Greeneyedlass]

LFL,

It is absolutely not at all odd for someone like Heywyre's H or mine to avoid this type of assignment...and avoiding it means not mentioning it.

[LustForLife]

I understand that they will avoid it, I just find it odd that they will go without even mentioning it if they know it will be brought up tomorrow with the ST. Wonder what he is going to say.

LFL