Definitely this thread is wonderful!

My question is "How do you provide/show the MLCer that home is safe when they are nowhere to be found (i.e. no contact)?"

Sitting quietly doing nothing, the flowers bloom effortlessly.

bomb: Jan 25, 2006
not seen since
DD moved in with H - 9/1/08
H filed for divorce - 11/2008
Divorce dismissed by courts - 4/2010
still nothing