Hey there, Kiki. I hope today is a better day. I guess it's hard for people to break things off with OP. After all, my wife has had OM around for two years. She's talking about reconciling but still hasn't gotten rid of OM and tries to convince me it's unimportant still. In fact, when the kids got here yesterday they told me all about him coming over and them going fishing...
If he's saying bad things behind your back to OW that only makes the pain twice as bad. I guess it's time to do what it says DR about people who won't get rid of OP. If you're willing to accept the fact that it could very well end in D, you'll have to let him know that as long as there is any type of R with her, there is no R with you at all.
It's really rotten that he's bad mouthing you to her. Really, really rotten.
