Thanks for the support Theo. Thanks for sharing my phobia with the world.
Anywho, I must first admit to being happily intoxicated. CW and I went shopping and then out for happy hour. I had 4 small margaritas (she was driving) and right now I have no inhibitions.
When we were shopping, we ran into a friend who moved out of the area in 1999. We talked for a bit and she never let on that there was any problem. After we talked, she asked me if I planned to tell him if he calls me.
How she goes from one side to the other amazes me. She also asked to take some pictures from the house. I again told her that was fine. I wanted to just kick her out, but I trusted all of you that she was just nuts.
We had a good time over drinks and what not, I flirted and kidded her and she kidded back. She was driving and threatened to make me walk because I was teasing her.
We got home, she picked up the kids and left. I joked around (tequila will do that to me), and she left. I did tell her that I had fun and she actually said she did too.
Smiling and waving through a buzz........
Me: 44 S: 17 and 7 Final-6-13-08 I once went to a psychic who told me I would soon feel cheated......
Wow MC, I have to try and get my W buzzed. Come to think of it she is a lot nicer when she drinks.
Perhaps she'll forget all about the OM and just take me instead. I would definitely take advantage of her if she let me(no shame). I wish my W would be as nice as yours.You're very lucky to have a friendship that can possibly grow back to the love you had. I'm still looking for civility in my W. She can't go 2 minutes w/out being a B$$ch. She's still in the anger stage. Oh well, just have to DB even harder.
ME: 39 ring on wife:38 ring off WAW/MLC son:17,11 dtr:9 mar:17yr Bomb4-27-07. EA/PA 2/07 with 22yr old. DBing 5-19-07 My story on the link below. http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1069470&page=0#Post1069470
How's that for a new DB technique...get buzzed whenever around spouse.
Yes... most excellent use of the latest DB technique. You have to be highly skilled to use this advanced technique. Too little and you get tired.. Too much and you get stupid. Carry on..
All I can say is thank God I don't drink anymore, I'd have been in jail by now! I'd have been over at OP's house, outing her in front of her family and neighbours and been carted off to jail. That kind of "buzz" I don't need! Hey, but that's just me
OK, now that my head has cleared, some more from margarita night. I asked about the wedding Sat, as far as riding together etc. She said we could ride together if it was alright with me?! WTH. The thing I am wondering is, is she doing this to avoid her looking bad, or does she want to be with me? Then again, she's crazy right now. Later, I found out that there will be no alcohol at the reception. The bride and groom are only 18. She said that was good, because she didn't know what I would do if I was drinking. (smiling).
S&W
Me: 44 S: 17 and 7 Final-6-13-08 I once went to a psychic who told me I would soon feel cheated......
Holy frustration Batman. I got home when CW was there picking up S6. (S15 andd I are going to work out.) She was bitchy and short with me. I blew it off and still said goodbye etc.
She called while we were working in the garage to say that S6 had brought his house key home by accident and she would be leaving her apt unlocked for when S15 gets there. I called her back (big mistake) and said we were leaving and we could meet her and get the key on our way. She had told me they were just leaving. Then she snapped at me that it was too late, blah blah blah. I told her I was just offering, so she didn't have to leave her house unlocked. She continued bitching so I said goodbye and hung up.
I am growing weary of this. She is doing what she wants with who she wants, and I am supposed to be the faithful partner and not do anything. And since the seperation, I have actually had women hit on me.....sucks
Me: 44 S: 17 and 7 Final-6-13-08 I once went to a psychic who told me I would soon feel cheated......
